What Should We Play Today?

Teaching Small Children the Art of Fair Play

Dear Moms, 

We are living in a new time. AI is globally taking over our technological lives and even threatening our jobs. Mass shootings are on the rise in the US, and women's body autonomy is at stake in the states as well. However, as we navigate our way through the congestion, one thing remains the same- being a mom. Moms have the task of taming our children's wilder natures and teaching them how to behave in society. Mainly, to avoid them becoming those who add to the already chaotic world we live in. 

When it comes to teaching small children, ages 3-7 how to share, show compassion, and actively prevent future bullying, engaging in play is one of the most effective methods. Play is a natural way for children to learn and experiment with their environment, and it helps to encourage positive behavior and develop social skills.

In order to teach children about sharing, cooperative play is one of the best ways. Games such as Simon Says, Duck Duck Goose, and Red Light, Green Light are all great options for teaching children how to take turns, share materials, and work together as a team. After all, teamwork makes the dream work!

Compassion can also be taught through play. For example, playing “hospital” can help teach children empathy and understanding. Role-playing games such as pretend shopping and "house" can help to encourage children to think of others’ needs and wants before their own. All while being mindful of not pigeonholing children in gender-normative roles. (i.e. Bobby can cook and or care for the baby doll & Melanie can go off to work or fix the family car) Household jobs and regular jobs are for everyone!

Finally, play can be a great way to actively prevent future bullying. Games such as tag and hide-and-seek can help children learn how to be assertive without being aggressive, and how to handle conflicts in a positive way. Additionally, encouraging imaginative play, such as making up stories with dolls or playing make-believe, can help children to develop problem-solving skills and the ability to think outside the box.

In summary, engaging in play is one of the best ways to teach small children, ages 3-7, how to share, show compassion, and actively prevent future bullying. Through cooperative play, role-playing, and imaginative play, children can develop the social and emotional skills needed to become successful and compassionate adults.